It’s not my fault is a phrase I often hear with Relationship Coaching. So, whose fault is it?
If we are constantly blaming someone else for what is happening in our lives and relationships we are looking to make them wrong, make it all their fault. Who likes to be wrong? Nobody ever stood up and said ‘Yes, I love to be wrong!’
What we really need to do is look at ourselves. How are we handling things? It’s not easy to dig deep and look inside ourselves for answers and solutions but believe me it is absolutely the best place to start.
Once you realise you can’t solve the problems when you are trying to control everyone else around you you will feel less stressed. It’s the difference between being unaware and then becoming aware.
When I first started practising this with everyone around me including my husband, it was quite enlightening. I was behaving in a way that just wasn’t helping anyone and once I realised it was all inside me and I had control over that, my life changed for the better.
If you feel like everyone else around you is to blame for the problems between you then I’m here to help. Just comment below and I’ll get back to you as soon as I can!
Anne Skelton